Almost all couples try new things to spice up their sex lives. For many people this means trying lingerie, leather, or even costumes to help set the mood and arouse their partner. Today we will look at some of the different types of erotic clothing and the benefits and uses for each type.

The main reasons for erotic clothing are simple. Typically, erotic clothing is used to increase intimacy and passion and heighten sexual arousal. This is true for all forms of erotic bedroom attire. From lingerie to leather to a French maid outfit, erotic attire is sexy, fun, and guaranteed to add an extra spark to even the most electric encounter.

While typically associated with women, it is important to note that erotic attire is made for people of both genders. There are numerous articles of erotic clothing for men, from underwear to leather and fetish wear. Erotic attire for
any gender comes in a variety of colors and materials, and there is literally something for every person and every mood or situation.

It is also important to note that erotic attire is for everyone regardless of size as well. Magazines and television lead us to believe that lingerie is only for skinny women, but this is not true. It is also for plus-sized people of both genders. Why should fantasy or erotic attire and the confidence boost that comes from wearing it be limited to only people who meet certain criteria? This notion is outdated, and there are many options for full figured people who would like to exchange traditional night or bedroom wear for more sensual attire.

The most common form of erotic or sensual clothing is of course lingerie. Designed for bedroom wear, lingerie is seductive, sensual, and sexy. For women, lingerie typically gives a feel of softness, with feathers or lace, though that
is sometimes combined with a strong feeling of passion, typically shown by use of dark colors like red and black. For
men, it tends to give an image of raw sexuality and passion, as typical male lingerie is in dark colors or animal prints.

The lingerie you wear can actually send signals to your partner. For women, just as soft colors and materials can
signify passion, sensuality, and a desire to be taken, dark colors, revealing or see-through pieces, and even lace can
signify raw desire and the need to take charge or play rough.  Because lingerie is not as commonly associated with men, it is typically generally associated with sexual desire and raw energy regardless of color or material. This is certainly not a bad thing, however. Believe it or not, color and material are not the only parts of your lingerie that send signals to your partner.

The type of lingerie you choose also clues your partner in to your desires. Without saying anything aloud, the mind of your partner is able to pick up subtle clues based on the psychological associations we have with color, material, and
look of lingerie. For example, a bra and panty set with a sheer robe implies a gentle mood, ready for lovemaking or foreplay, whereas a leather outfit or crotchless panty set implies more of a rough and ready attitude. Color still comes into play, however, as pastel leather or a jet black panty and bra set certainly bring these generalizations into question. In short, you can combine different elements to give off different signals, depending on both your mood and your desires.

Beyond lingerie, there are other types of erotic or sensual clothing. Leather is a common material used in making
sexually suggestive clothing. Leather lingerie and bedroom attire is usually associated with bondage, though some people do wear it simply for sensual purposes.

There is leather bedroom clothing for both sexes. Typical articles are underwear, masks, collars, and shoes or boots. For women, there are also leather bras and corsets. When looking for bondage gear, the list is much more exhaustive, and many people end up having pieces custom made to suit their personal desires. Leather clothing is considered by many to be extremely sexy.

Having mentioned shoes and boots, it is important to note that for many people, footwear is a big part of erotic attire.
What seems like a gentle and sensual outfit becomes much more passionate and sexual when combined with a pair of stiletto heels. Thigh high boots and heels are your most common erotic footwear, and both are found by most lovers to be quite arousing.

In addition to the clothing already mentioned, another popular type of bedroom attire is fantasy clothing. This includes costumes, wigs, and outfits that are outside of one’s normal wardrobe that fulfill desires of you or your partner. For many couples, fantasy play is a safe way to explore desires about celebrities, people in certain trades (a maid or flight attendant, or even a burglar or policeman), or other objects of desire.

Fantasy play is often a hard subject for people to bring up to their partners without feeling like they are being at least
mentally unfaithful. What many people do not realize, however, is that fantasy is natural and that everyone engages in fantasy thoughts and daydreams. If you find yourself having a hard time bringing up the subject, let your partner know that while you fantasize about a celebrity or a type of person (teacher, cop, etc.), you want to live out that fantasy with your partner only. Just as your partner may want to try new positions or even toys,
wanting to engage in fantasy play is simply a way to add new intimacy and passion to your sex life.

Fantasy costumes not only give you or your partner a chance to be with whomever you desire, but it gives you a chance to be someone you have always fantasized of being. Are you an uptight mother of three with an office job? Playing the role of an exotic dancer might give you a chance to see what it is like to live life more freely and openly. If you are a laid back, go-with-the-flow type, it might be fun to dress like a school teacher or police officer and show your partner the rules. There is no limit to the ways you can express yourself with fantasy wear.

Many people find that they or their partners entertain fantasies of sex without strings, typically with strangers. For
some this could mean fantasizing about strippers or flight attendants. For others, this involves fantasizing about the
cable man or even a naughty burglar who comes in and takes a lot more than just your jewelry before disappearing into the night. By engaging in these scenarios with your partner, you not only
have erotic fun, but ensure that these fantasies are fulfilled in a safe way.

One thing that a majority of people who try erotic clothing agree on is that it changed their lives. Exploring your sexual fantasies helps to free you of repression and alleviate sexual tension. Finding out all of the things and characteristics that turn you on and make you happy sexually ultimately make your entire sex life better, even when erotic attire is not involved.

Comfort is important when it comes to erotic clothing. Not just the comfort of the clothing, but your level of comfort in wearing it. While it is completely natural to be shy or nervous when first starting to wear erotic or fantasy clothing, you should make sure that it is something you want to do. Your partner will be able to pick up on it if you are not interested, and there are other ways to spice up your sex life.

It is also exceptionally important to be comfortable with your partner. Do not engage in bondage play or forceful fantasy play with someone unless you know them well and know that you are safe. Always have a safe word and always have a phone nearby. A partner who cares and is worthy of these fantasies will have no problems with taking safety precautions. When first engaging in fantasy play that involves any sort of restraining device, only
use the types of restraints that have a breakaway option should the situation become uncomfortable. This is not only to ensure your physical safety, but to give you a way out should you panic or decide that this fantasy is not right for you.

That said, if you are really interested in erotic, fantasy, or fetish wear, then there is unlimited possibility. The act of
dressing up allows both you and your partner to fantasize about almost anything. It also shows your partner how much you desire them and for those who have been in a relationship for a long time, it takes you from husband, wife, or partner, and turns you back into an object of sensuality and lust.
Dressing in erotic clothing also provides a great deal of benefit to you personally. Living your fantasies and being more sexually free gives you a great deal of confidence both inside and outside of the bedroom. Believe it or not, having a take charge attitude when it comes to your sex life can help you develop this characteristic in the outside world, which can do a lot for your work environment and career.

If you find that you are already a take charge person, then perhaps your sexual fantasy is to receive more than you give or to perhaps give up a bit of control. This is also something that can be quite helpful in the workplace. As you take on these personality traits, even in a sexual or fantasy setting, your mind learns to behave in this fashion when it would be beneficial. This adds career boosting to the already limitless list of benefits from erotic clothing and sex in general.

In short, there is no limit to sexuality, and erotic attire can help you to expand and explore beyond the boundaries you currently know. Many therapists recommend some degree of fantasy play both to couples looking to repair their sex lives and those looking to simply keep it healthy. Sex is a completely natural and healthy act, and there is no reason we should not be able to enjoy it to its fullest potential.

As mentioned before, erotic attire and sex in general can prove quite beneficial. Sex is known for its ability to help the human body. Orgasm releases pleasure hormones that help combat depression, insomnia, headaches and more. Having a healthy sex life and regular sex is also shown to help boost the immune system. When coupled with the self esteem and confidence boosts gained from engaging in fantasy play or while wearing erotic attire, you have a recipe for optimal health.

With all of this in mind, it is highly encouraged that you take a step into the world of erotic attire if you have not done so already. It is okay to start slowly, perhaps with a pair of sexy underwear or a teddy. This will not only help you to have a better and more ambitious sex life, but will arouse your partner greatly. By releasing limitations and inhibitions in the bedroom, you encourage honesty and help to show your partner that anything he or she desires can be found with you.

Erotic attire can really change your outlook on sex. Once you begin to experiment with different attire and scenarios, all of the limits and restrictions you once felt will go out the window, and you will begin to see that you can do almost
anything. The beauty of this realization is that it can follow you into the world outside, showing you that anything is
possible if you are willing to try new things and take charge once in a while.

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